Your preferences shape your decisions as much as your decisions shape your preferences

Just two months ago, I said, at my stage of life, I’m probably only left with small decisions to make in daily life.

Guess I was wrong. I’ll share more contexts when I’m through it, but at the moment, I will just quote what Chris shared with me: “Your preferences shape your decisions as much as your decisions shape your preferences”.

Maybe my future self will thank me for the new preferences I form through the decisions I make here and now.

Written on October 18, 2026